whoever falls, can only get up if they really want to.

have you ever asked yourself why we hurt the people we love the most? why do we have such a urge to judge someone right when they walk by. we dont know them, we've never met them, yet we still classify them by junkie, nerd, prep, jock, ect. and our accusation is always false. we see someone who every guy falls for and wants so we think hey shes liked, we should hang with her. yet as soon as you get up close and she talks. you think gahdd, what do they see in her. or a guy who might just not be very social, so we think avoid himm. yet when you actually talk to him, hes an absolute sweetheart.

i just dont understand why humans think they are totally invincible. bc they have alot of friends that theyre so much better than anyone.
Now days sex, love and money is what we want from the time we see what it can do. as a teenager, none of that matters. its always abused. being young, and having boundaries seems so difficult but truthfully its what gives us a chance to find us. to be who we wanna be. friends should matter, instead we throw it off for a boy. someone who wont be there for you nearly as long as your friend could. you throw your whole life away to be with someone who right now, at this point thinks they know what love is but they'll eventually wanna try new things. see other people. yet our mind sucks us in to believe every word he says. and we do. we think everyone who tells us that we shouldnt be so involved, we shouldnt be that committed so you is just naive. and theyre not. i was. and when it hits you. when you see how everyone was right, how bad it hurts to feel such pain. to really love a guy who never cared in reality. and then we only wish we could go back and change everything. we wish we could turn back time, not get so caught up. because before you know it, its way too late. everything you worked for, everything you earned and fought for is gone. because of a ONE person. why do we spend so much time looking for someone and when we find it, we really think its worth it, so we dump everything immediatly for his undivided attention and all we get is feet that walk away, and friends and family you have hurt. time youve wastedd. love doesnt last as long as we all think it will. you dont have everything handed to you. you have to work for it, search for it, pray for it, EARN it. and then you can have it. we're selfish human beings. we get so self absorbed in everything that we ignore every thing you end up wishing you woulda paid attention too.