dreams, or reality.

You know i hear alot from people who work a job without a degree that i need to stay in school, go to college and not have kids til afterwards. that they had big dreams and hopes of doing something someday but they had kids and now theyre struggling.
But when you look at it. yea a kid is alot to take on but thats not all theyre fault.

you say you had a DREAM but your the one who chooses to make that dream a reality.the one who chooses to set a short term goal and a long term goal and go for it. You have to make sacrifices and no matter if you have a child or not its gonna have its bumps down the road somehow.God doesnt put you in this world for everything to be easy and smooth. He puts you in here and says its gonna get hard before it gets easy but your the one who chooses which path to take. the easy way out that ends up putting you in a hard tight spot or taking the hard way that has its bumps and bruises but helps you grow and learn so that in the end itll be easier then if you were to take the road that almost everyone takes and be stuck.
I cant say my life has put me in deeper wholes than yours has. or that my life was been more of a bumpy rollercoaster than a smooth one because as everyone could say, it could be worsse. But as young as i am, ive been through a big enough amount to learn that i dont wanna take the easy road. people face challenges everyday so why is it so hard to face a couple more and have a more pleasing and full life then such a empty one. people use excuses like druggies use pain killers. to make life easier for them so they dont have to wake up and face reality. if you truly wanted to be something, to make something of your life youd do it even i it meant making sacrifices. My mom had 4 kids and still managed to go back to school and get a degree because its what shes truly wanted. to be able to support herself and kids. so why when people say make something of your life, i tried do they not say no matter how hard it gets keep going, chase your dreams. make them a reality.